What we choose to do with abiding emotions is what matters.
Self-talk and analysis, with reality prominent in mind, must precede our choices and consequent actions.
Really Bad Choices tend to be the outcome of emotions not first self-talked, not first analyzed with reality in mind.
On this, you can trust me: I am the lifelong master of Really Bad Choices!
So, Really Bad Choices: what’s the deal?
Motive and Goal. That’s the deal.
What is the basis our motivation?
What is the character of our goals?
Are they positive, firmly-rooted in reality, functional, and productive for all concerned?
If not, stand by
for a Really Bad Choice.